Growing up in an orphanage

This last weekend we spent with a close friend, family really, who spent 22 years of her life in an orphanage. Abandoned before she can remember, she has seen a lot in those 22 years.

I don't know all the reasons she was never put up for adoption, perhaps it was that because of her physical needs no one thought anyone would want her, perhaps it was because she is very wise for her age and she knew too much, whatever the reason, no family ever came for her.

Some of the things she faced growing up I'll never probably know, the things I do know make me want to weep, for no child should ever have to face the awful things she had to face.

Every time we are with her I am committed even more to encourage people to get involved in orphan care and adoption. She was never able to be adopted, but the people who came to care for her even while and orphan in many ways shaped the person she is now, and the Lord used those people to open doors for her.

We have been truly blessed by knowing her and by having her as our little sister.

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